Saturday, September 7, 2013

The Garden Fair


My child has been responsible for watering the plants this year.  We both grew them from seed together, but she has been the water hauler.  She killed my hanging baskets, since she thought a lick of water was more than enough.  (It wasn't.)  She was able to enjoy the fruits (or veggies) of her labor yesterday when the basket of vegetables that she turned in for this years Garden Fair won a 1st place in her category.

After school on Thursday, I carried the basket as the picked every ripe vegetable she could find.  She wrote her tag and on Friday morning, we got up early to pick collards, two types of parsley and some chive tops.

I spent a lot of my day explaining what ground cherries are.  Many of the teachers tried them and liked them.  :)

It is Saturday and I find the need to contend with laundry, do a quick food inventory and visit the local grocery.  It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood, but K and I are battling allergy nose (despite taking allergy meds.)  She's pulling for a Brady Bunch Marathon for later.  I may have to take her up on it!

Have a great weekend!

Friday, August 30, 2013

Monarch Watch Tagging: It's that time of year again!


I caught three monarchs, which is rather a miracle in itself since the numbers have been so dreadfully low and prior to this, we only saw one or two total this summer. 


Out comes the tag.  We buy these tags from Monarch Watch.  You can't just go sticking your own tags on them.  


Ready to go, go, go to Mexico!


But not this cicada.  It wanted in on the fun, but I had to explain that we were counting Monarchs and not cicadas. 

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Day 2: The KL Puking Lounge

While yes it can be said that my child was THE first child to vomit in the new school clinic.  At 8:47 AM, the school nurse was on the phone with me stating that K had a horrible headache.  I took Advil and Claritin to her.  3 minutes later, they made their appearance again.

Oy.

Day 2.  What a way to start.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

First day of school! First day of school!


And we're off!  We're starting the first day of fourth grade with the loveliest teacher!  We met her the other day and I actually cried driving home.  Mrs. S seems so very lovely and we're looking forward to K's new year of school.  I told K that my heart was encouraged.  She agreed.  Hubs reports having all sorts of "warm fuzzies" from her, but not so much from last year's teacher.  Yes, I will get over our 3rd grade experience.  I promise.  

We're back to walking!  Our new building is complete and K is excited.  I had to beg for a crossing guard at our usual stop.  Near the end of our time at our old building, road construction had happened and they (the powers that be) decided to install a light a block down and move the crosswalk for the kids who live in the housing development.  We're the kids on the other side of the development and the move of cross walk added 3 additional blocks (3/10ths of a mile) to the morning walk and I said nothankyou.  As it turns out, the crossing guard reports that he crossed kids going to the middle school this morning, so we're hoping that we can keep him.  I sure would hate to have to wear a whistle and carry a flag in the morning!

And the latest development?  Hubs is going to walk with us whenever he can.  It's so nice to have a walking partner!  Round trip, it is 2 free miles every morning.  Not such a bad thing!

Have a great day!

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Just a touch of busy going on here.

I'm alive.  I swear that I am.  I hadn't realized it had been so long since I had blogged.

PTA is up and running and we're busy!  We've had the summer meeting, two open houses-- one for the new school opening and one for just our school.  Oh my.

I have the PTA newsletter to do, which is fine but time consuming.  I also have that whole PTA president thing.

And work.

And my people like to live in a house that isn't squalor, they love to have food in the fridge and gosh darn it!  The people expect clean clothes!

Needless to say, sleep has been not as plentiful.

I also had a birthday.  K wrote on my cake.


My people had a birthday party for me.  


They decorated and wrote on the back door.  They also took me for a two-day surprise trip away.  We went to see Flight of the Butterflies at COSI (we cried and cried,) to Cox Arboretum to their butterfly house and on to King's Island where we rode all we wanted and left at 4:15 PM to drive back home.  Since school was in, there were no lines!  You Tube video is at the end of the Diamondback that I won't ride again. 


I stepped on this nest of bunnies while I was re-painting the bathroom medicine cabinet.


K wanted to mow the lawn and with Hubs right there, we decided that since the child is just shy of 5' tall, we could let her go with it.  She did a great job!  


The bathroom is finished!  Okay, there are just a few wonky spots on paint I need to touch up but it seriously got to a point that I couldn't do it anymore.  


The shower surround that Hubs thought was going to kill him.  In the replacement, it revealed rot of the outer wall, gave me that big hole in the wall . . .  Yes, this is a just-used-shower photo, but at least now you see what I've been talking about all this time.


I'm stuck with this blue counter top, so I always have to do something to make it work.  I repainted the vanity, the light and the medicine cabinet.  We reused as much as humanly possible.  







See?  I told you that I was busy!  

Friday, August 16, 2013

A conversation with my 9 year old: Love and marriage.

On our way back from Kohl's this afternoon, my daughter asked me if she can ask a question.  She always says, "Mom, may I ask a question?"  I don't quite know why because I always tell her yes.  We have an open policy on questions at our home.  We'd rather have her ask.

"Was Mr. Don married?"

"Well, Mr. Don was engaged to a woman he loved very much and she passed away."

"Was Mr. Glenn married?"

"He was.  He loved her very much."

"What happened?"

"I don't know."

"But what about Mr. Don and Mr. Glenn?  Do they love each other?"

"Very much.  There are people who marry different people.  There are women who marry men.  There are men who marry women.  There are men who love men and women who love women, but because of what the bible says about men and women getting married, in many states, these people who love each other very much cannot get married and I think that's very sad."  That was the end of the conversation at that point.  K is the kind of kid to chew on information for a while, then to have questions a day or two later.

I did call Don to let him know how I handled the conversation.  We knew that the conversation of Mr. Don and Mr. Glenn would show up at some point.  She loves them very much and spends time with them, being a hired hand to help around the house and so forth.  He thanked me and said that he thought I handled it very well.

Mr. Don and Mr. Glenn?  They would very much love to get married.  Maybe someday the State of Ohio will recognize their union.  Until then, they sit in wait.  When that day comes, what a party that will be and all three of us will be there to share in their joy.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Month 1: Reworking the household budget

Last month I had Hubs sit down with me.  I reported that according to our credit card statement, we were bleeding money.  I could see a couple of glaring things that both of us could stand to change.

1.  Hubs was given a $20 bill and told that was his used CD allowance for the month.  $20 was the agreed upon limit a while ago.  Somehow, the Discover card reveals that $20 was not what he spent.  I told him that I didn't want to see The Exchange, Buy Backs, Best Buy or any other type of CD retailer on our credit card.  $20 was the limit-- including tax.  He agreed and said that if he wanted to purchase more, he would trade some of his old CD's.  He has traded old CD's the last two months.

2.  I agreed that though it is a seasonal addiction, I would NOT participate in any school supply sales unless it was something that I didn't have an K required for school - on the actual list.  People drink.  I find a new box of crayons intoxicating.  :deep breath:  How much I love new school supplies!  At any rate, I did as I agreed.  In fact, K required a zipper pouch for her school supplies.  She made one with Miss L during sewing lessons and all it cost was the $2.50 for the zipper.  Since then, we made a few pencil organizing pouches to go inside of the zipper pouch.  I told her that to corral the colored pencils and to keep the regular pencils separate, the little pouches would be good.  It would keep her from always grabbing a colored pencil when an actual pencil was needed.  I even made a pouch for the crayons.  (I know.)  The box to the crayons was sliced by a box cutter and wouldn't last.  Now the box is in a velcro pouch and all she has to do is open up and they are in there.  I cut the box top and the tab off.  It is quite lovely.

3.  The weather has been kind and we have left the air off.

4.  Watering plants has been done with the rain barrel water only.

5.  We've tried on all of K's school clothes from last year, used the parts that are reusable (which are actually a lot) and ordered a minimal number of shirts.  I scored a huge pile of new shirts (with tags!) at the uniform swap at our church, but those are for next year.  We're good to go for school.

6.  The most glaring thing on our statement was the number of times the grocery was visited in a month.  I cut Hubs off.  I realize that it was like ripping a giant bandaid off of a scab.  Oh, it hurt him when I did that, but Walm*art would appear on the statement 3-4x each week with purchases totaling $25-40.  All he went for was bananas!  We have, as a family project, worked hard to go to the grocery only once a week.  Everyone tells me the needs and I am the one to do the shopping.  I have been hanging out at the local discount store and we've been getting roughly the same types of things.  I do watch regular ads, but most of the time, there's nothing that I can use.  We eat healthy and frankly- that isn't cheap!  We found that Starkist has sadly decided to discontinue the size of tuna pouch Hubs eats, so we've been gathering those.  It was out of the grocery budget and he even told me, "I know it was hard for you to spend over what we said, but I thank you!"  We have stock piled his tuna.  We're good for a while.

7.  We have not eaten out at all.  Nothing.  Not one morsel.  We're never big on it anyhow, but a drive thru a few times a month still counts.  (Out shopping, hungry . . . you know the deal.)  I traded my Morningstar veggie burgers for homemade.  I made 28 patties of two different varieties and spent $5 or less for what would have cost $26. or so.  We baked banana oatmeal cookies for K's lunch.  (We all loved them!)  We truly try to watch and use leftovers.

8.  Hubs makes one run to Sam's Club and has kept that bill to $100 or just hovering there.  This past month added a few school foods-- Gogurt, mozzarella cheese sticks and Clif Kids bars.  That helped the cost to shoot over $100 but he's been very good about watching it.

9.  For the bathroom spiff, we've reused hardware and just repainted.  Works for us.  That stuff is expensive!  Right now, the medicine cabinet has been spray painted and I'm hoping to move it into the shed before rains come.  It's solid, but needed some love.  Spray paint to the rescue!

10.  I've stayed away from walking all through Target when all I need is just a few things.  Chickadees (Goldfish) and Annie's Organics Mac & Cheese are Target staples for us.  Just like a car on auto drive, I can go to them and right back out.

11.  We changed our insurance company and have saved a bundle. In fact, the renewal for insurance company A came in and I compared it with company B that we will be switching to.  The same insurance (with basement back-up added to the house) will save us $1277 per year.  The renewals came in with some significant increases.  That saves $106.41 per month and will certainly help towards that nasty water bill that we expect in the near future.

12.  My Lipitor card was renewed  so now I'm back to a $4 copay.  That's better than the $25 it went to.  About 9 months after its issue, I think it maxes out and rolls to my normal insurance copay.  Thank goodness for that card!  Thank goodness for both!

We're working it.  In just one month, it has made a significant difference.  We'll report our findings next month to see if we could see something else that we could squeeze a little.  For this month, we expect expenses to include the plumber, purchase of the surround for the tub and two license plates, please!